MEANS OF HAPPINESS

Happiness is a mysterious feeling. A feeling that cannot be explained in words. A feeling that brings smile to our face. People get happy in the way they want something to happen. It is mainly our way of looking life. If we think negative the universe is going to deliver negative things. What we hold in our mind is what will come into manifestation. It is not merely an achievement because sometimes some people feel happy even looking at the beautiful nature around us.

Te feeling of joy comes to different people in different ways. Like a crying baby would feel happy when it is cuddled up in the arms of the loving mother, a beggar would when he attains food or money, an artist when he comes across his favorite scenic beauty to capture, a poet when he completes his lines, a student when he obtains good marks, a farmer when see his prosperity of paddy field. It’s not that only reach and famous are the happiest person in this earth. America, the richest country but the people are not the happiest. And co-incidentally Bhutan one of the poor countries falls among the happiest countries.

This joyness is our way of accepting things. It’s the manner in which we become satisfied. Some people are very pessimist. They never accept things in a positive way, so, are never satisfied and hence, never happy. We are trained from our childhood that any thing in our life to be acquired, we need to work hard. But, they are hard only when we take them in hard way. Suppose a painter views beautiful scenery but things it is impossible for him to paint it out then he is never going to attain his goal. He should be optimist, and perform, because it is his skill and he could surely do it. An optimist is always happy in any situation. Sometimes some pick skills which others after much thinking could not get it because they are optimist.

To obtain high education and being very brilliant does not make one happy. But to learn how lead a prosperous and peaceful life is the real education. London school of economics has stated through a research study that though a man could obtain twice the wealth he has, but he could not obtain twice that happiness.

A person should believe that his goal is there for him, he should feel good and quit asking for his desire and finally take action. Every situation has to expect a negative and a positive and we should wash off the negative aspects and focus up on the positive. Andre Carnegie a famous philosopher quotes that “dealing with a man is like digging gold in a mine.” To get one ounce of gold we need to dig one ton of clad. But the satisfaction lies up on the way we think, none should think that we are digging for clad but for gold.

So, why live a chaotic life by looking the world through the eye of a negative thinker and be sad than being a positive thinker and lead a healthy peaceful and happy life. So,  the motto is my people, “be happy and make other happy.”