Tuesday, September 27, 2011
my buddies from the last 5 years..they have made my life beautiful till now..and i amloving each and every moment m spending with them :)
Monday, September 26, 2011
finally did it!!!
well!! it was like months since i have been thinking of creating my blog..never happened for this or that..now DAT i have open it i feel good..at least i fulfill some of my wishes..now i can engross myself in something which is better than Facebook..lol!! i am not sure what else i should write here..what else will i post here..well obviously some silly thoughts of mine, weird things that i do everyday...stupid words that pop out of my mouth at situations where i should keep mum...what i feel about my new and old friends and this and that....well!! i cant prophecy my future :) it is bound to come when i blog the next time..
INCREDIBLE INDIA!
India sure is incredible with all its flora and fauna. Not just the
beauty but also the culture, the people and the variance of colors
hold a mesmerized point in the view of the people residing in and
outside this precious land. Its beauty is immeasurable, the historical
site transcends us into a wondrous era and its greenery along with the
endangered species is just wonderful.
However, it is the second most populous country in the world but still
it is the biggest democracy on earth. With the onset of globalization,
the growing Indian economy has led to a greater appreciation. Even
during the recent economic crisis, the Indian economy has been sound
and perfect. Every year about 5 million tourist visit this magical
land and these business has provide employment to 42 million people.
Unlike Malaysia and Singapore India also is now allotting a large
amount for innovation of the tourist market and to attract a large
amount of foreign tourist.
Do you love to spend a luminous night with sky filled up with the moon
and uncountable stars or like to walk serene valleys with the
fragrance of varied flowers and watch clouds kissing the hilltops with
its salubrious air and? All these together can b seen and felt in the
suburbs of northern India. People travel miles just to watch the
backwaters of kerela or to feel the warmth of the soft wet sands on
their feet with the sound of the calm waves while they walk in the
seashore. India is also famous for its art and sculptures and the
well-known yogh sadhanas. Foreigners from all over the world visit
India just to have a duke in the holy water of Ganga.
The Indian film industry has also goon global with various foreign
stars appearing in Indian cinemas and the Indian stars appearing in
there movies. Every year about a 1000, films get released, a number
that is overwhelming. Today with the emerging changes, people in and
outside India are standing up for their heritage and identity. India
is now going global with the most exciting market in the world with a
distinct cutting edge in global competition and with the pace it is
growing, it sure would soon be a most successful of all.
beauty but also the culture, the people and the variance of colors
hold a mesmerized point in the view of the people residing in and
outside this precious land. Its beauty is immeasurable, the historical
site transcends us into a wondrous era and its greenery along with the
endangered species is just wonderful.
However, it is the second most populous country in the world but still
it is the biggest democracy on earth. With the onset of globalization,
the growing Indian economy has led to a greater appreciation. Even
during the recent economic crisis, the Indian economy has been sound
and perfect. Every year about 5 million tourist visit this magical
land and these business has provide employment to 42 million people.
Unlike Malaysia and Singapore India also is now allotting a large
amount for innovation of the tourist market and to attract a large
amount of foreign tourist.
Do you love to spend a luminous night with sky filled up with the moon
and uncountable stars or like to walk serene valleys with the
fragrance of varied flowers and watch clouds kissing the hilltops with
its salubrious air and? All these together can b seen and felt in the
suburbs of northern India. People travel miles just to watch the
backwaters of kerela or to feel the warmth of the soft wet sands on
their feet with the sound of the calm waves while they walk in the
seashore. India is also famous for its art and sculptures and the
well-known yogh sadhanas. Foreigners from all over the world visit
India just to have a duke in the holy water of Ganga.
The Indian film industry has also goon global with various foreign
stars appearing in Indian cinemas and the Indian stars appearing in
there movies. Every year about a 1000, films get released, a number
that is overwhelming. Today with the emerging changes, people in and
outside India are standing up for their heritage and identity. India
is now going global with the most exciting market in the world with a
distinct cutting edge in global competition and with the pace it is
growing, it sure would soon be a most successful of all.
CYBER TRAP
The world may seem enormous but once we are sited in-front of the 21”
flat screen ,everything is at a grip. You want to get connected to the
whole surrounding around you and you could at a click in your
keyboard. We are glued to the virtual world around us. Not just
keeping connected to our friends but from surfing for entertainment or
news to scavenging for information-we just can’t do without the
internet. It is a media trough which each and everyone stays connected
from the world around them.
But on the flip side-they have also lead to trans-national crimes
called Cyb er-crimes. Many people have become a verdict of these crime
and most among them are young teenagers. A good part of web service is
that we can access it from any part of the globe but the sad part is
that the culprit of the Cyb er crimes could not be identified and
punished.
One of the most common Cyb er crimes is ‘hacking’. A person can
trespass a computer system which is called an illegal intrusion. They
can crack confidential information, crack company codes and even
someone’s personnel email account. They could monitor everything the
owner is performing from the machine. Its like they could keep an eye
on all activities of the user.
Different blogs containing information and opinions could be
misleading and dangerous, they might actually encourage you to do
something that proves to be harmful. Never trust someone you met
online. There are hoards of sexual perverts and after some sweet talk
they sexually molest you. There are many real-life cases where young
girls become a prey of these perverts.
Cyb er stalkers are people who follow a person’s movement across the
internet by posting messages on bulletin board frequented by the
victim, entering the chat rooms, posting ugly comments and bombarding
with e-mails. E-mail scoffing is one that appears to originate from
one source but actually has been sent from another one. It could cause
serious damage like defaming someone, obtaining someone’s personal
information or even causing monetary damage.
Uploading your pictures on various website could have dire
consequences. Doctoring someone’s photos put up on networking
defamatory matter about someone on a website are examples of Cyb er
crimes.
It is not mandatory that everyone you come across on internet would be
a pervert but its better to be alert and take necessary steps like
reporting it to the police. Like everything else, Cyb er space do also
have its evil side and awareness is our only shelter.
flat screen ,everything is at a grip. You want to get connected to the
whole surrounding around you and you could at a click in your
keyboard. We are glued to the virtual world around us. Not just
keeping connected to our friends but from surfing for entertainment or
news to scavenging for information-we just can’t do without the
internet. It is a media trough which each and everyone stays connected
from the world around them.
But on the flip side-they have also lead to trans-national crimes
called Cyb er-crimes. Many people have become a verdict of these crime
and most among them are young teenagers. A good part of web service is
that we can access it from any part of the globe but the sad part is
that the culprit of the Cyb er crimes could not be identified and
punished.
One of the most common Cyb er crimes is ‘hacking’. A person can
trespass a computer system which is called an illegal intrusion. They
can crack confidential information, crack company codes and even
someone’s personnel email account. They could monitor everything the
owner is performing from the machine. Its like they could keep an eye
on all activities of the user.
Different blogs containing information and opinions could be
misleading and dangerous, they might actually encourage you to do
something that proves to be harmful. Never trust someone you met
online. There are hoards of sexual perverts and after some sweet talk
they sexually molest you. There are many real-life cases where young
girls become a prey of these perverts.
Cyb er stalkers are people who follow a person’s movement across the
internet by posting messages on bulletin board frequented by the
victim, entering the chat rooms, posting ugly comments and bombarding
with e-mails. E-mail scoffing is one that appears to originate from
one source but actually has been sent from another one. It could cause
serious damage like defaming someone, obtaining someone’s personal
information or even causing monetary damage.
Uploading your pictures on various website could have dire
consequences. Doctoring someone’s photos put up on networking
defamatory matter about someone on a website are examples of Cyb er
crimes.
It is not mandatory that everyone you come across on internet would be
a pervert but its better to be alert and take necessary steps like
reporting it to the police. Like everything else, Cyb er space do also
have its evil side and awareness is our only shelter.
MAKE ME KOOOL!!!!!!
Being trendy or looking super cool and sexy has become a must for the
people nowadays. But to be gorgeous and dazzling doesn’t mean you have
to wear the smallest of clothes. The definition of cool has changed
over time and years, it’s giving an impact of embracing our culture in
a firm grip.
It is not necessarily required to wear westerns to show-off, there are
hoards of Indian outfits that can take-away our heart with an oooh!!
For instance the sari is considered one of the sexiest dresses. Even
foreigners love to drape themselves in the six yard piece of wonder
though it is very difficult for them to handle it. Wearing a printed
patiallas with short kurtas and funky jeweler could also make you look
trendy.
You need not dress-up with the most expensive to be a Diva; you should
feel like a diva from inside to be one. A lots of unnecessary make-up
does not ton-up your skin, a slight blush, liners and a gloss could do
magic. You should always put comfort ahead of glamour. Your clothes
should never be over the top, just basic, well cut and designed and
most importantly you should feel comfortable in it. Even blending the
western with the Desi bit is always charming. For instance a harem
pant with mojaris, a beautifully embroidered blouse with a pair of
jeans could really make you look stylish. Its just that your attire
should compliment with the circumstances and environment or you would
look a Christmas Tree during Holi. The ripped jeans is also in fashion
nowadays but if you plan to look super duper cool and rip it off too
much, you would surly look no better than a beggar.
You should wear clothes that emphasize those perfect curves of yours.
Basically people should look for their style, something affordable and
trendy and that suits them but they really should not follow fashion
blindly. There is no need to be a fashion victim, trends in fashion
should be followed but most importantly you should be yourself.
people nowadays. But to be gorgeous and dazzling doesn’t mean you have
to wear the smallest of clothes. The definition of cool has changed
over time and years, it’s giving an impact of embracing our culture in
a firm grip.
It is not necessarily required to wear westerns to show-off, there are
hoards of Indian outfits that can take-away our heart with an oooh!!
For instance the sari is considered one of the sexiest dresses. Even
foreigners love to drape themselves in the six yard piece of wonder
though it is very difficult for them to handle it. Wearing a printed
patiallas with short kurtas and funky jeweler could also make you look
trendy.
You need not dress-up with the most expensive to be a Diva; you should
feel like a diva from inside to be one. A lots of unnecessary make-up
does not ton-up your skin, a slight blush, liners and a gloss could do
magic. You should always put comfort ahead of glamour. Your clothes
should never be over the top, just basic, well cut and designed and
most importantly you should feel comfortable in it. Even blending the
western with the Desi bit is always charming. For instance a harem
pant with mojaris, a beautifully embroidered blouse with a pair of
jeans could really make you look stylish. Its just that your attire
should compliment with the circumstances and environment or you would
look a Christmas Tree during Holi. The ripped jeans is also in fashion
nowadays but if you plan to look super duper cool and rip it off too
much, you would surly look no better than a beggar.
You should wear clothes that emphasize those perfect curves of yours.
Basically people should look for their style, something affordable and
trendy and that suits them but they really should not follow fashion
blindly. There is no need to be a fashion victim, trends in fashion
should be followed but most importantly you should be yourself.
TUNE UP YOURSELF
Are you planning to be the next Kareena Kapoor with zero size figure??
Then its time to visit the Gym than wobble around making excuses and
cursing God for not giving you a wonderful figure. It mostly happens
that people always have negative attitude and this attitude stands in
the way of getting to the body you want. But we only think mentally,
stretching our patience to the limit but, we tend to find excuses to
avoid exercise then to simply do that. We know that we need
desperately to loose weight but when it comes to exercise we do not
have enough time. Where we can spend enormous time in eating and
gossiping,we can't even spend 50 Min's for a good work-out.
Most interestingly people who visit gym waste time between exercise by
talking on the phone or chatting with fellow gymmers. Another most
happening excuse is that they cannot wake-up early. But its only a
myth that only exercise done in the morning is effective. You burn -up
as much calories and its better schedule it when you are physically
and mentally into your workout. There are some who doesn't love
exercise but its only because they have not found a way to love it.
Its not compulsory to visit the gym, while you can join a dance class
which is another energetic method of loosing your calories.
Some girls in desperate attempt to loose weight skip most of their
breakfast, lunch and dinner all-together and end up only with an apple
or a snack. But starving yourself to death is not a healthy sign.
Better go for an exercise and tune up your body. Hating your body
won't motivate you to have a beautiful and luscious body you need
nutritious food, fresh air and lots of energetic activity.
When you appreciate your body you treat it well, which leads to a
better shape and better health. So, stop making weight loss your only
goal and look at a bigger picture, slowly you would love your body as
much as i do.
Then its time to visit the Gym than wobble around making excuses and
cursing God for not giving you a wonderful figure. It mostly happens
that people always have negative attitude and this attitude stands in
the way of getting to the body you want. But we only think mentally,
stretching our patience to the limit but, we tend to find excuses to
avoid exercise then to simply do that. We know that we need
desperately to loose weight but when it comes to exercise we do not
have enough time. Where we can spend enormous time in eating and
gossiping,we can't even spend 50 Min's for a good work-out.
Most interestingly people who visit gym waste time between exercise by
talking on the phone or chatting with fellow gymmers. Another most
happening excuse is that they cannot wake-up early. But its only a
myth that only exercise done in the morning is effective. You burn -up
as much calories and its better schedule it when you are physically
and mentally into your workout. There are some who doesn't love
exercise but its only because they have not found a way to love it.
Its not compulsory to visit the gym, while you can join a dance class
which is another energetic method of loosing your calories.
Some girls in desperate attempt to loose weight skip most of their
breakfast, lunch and dinner all-together and end up only with an apple
or a snack. But starving yourself to death is not a healthy sign.
Better go for an exercise and tune up your body. Hating your body
won't motivate you to have a beautiful and luscious body you need
nutritious food, fresh air and lots of energetic activity.
When you appreciate your body you treat it well, which leads to a
better shape and better health. So, stop making weight loss your only
goal and look at a bigger picture, slowly you would love your body as
much as i do.
DIZ YEAR THINK HATKE!!
Its new tear time and everything is at a BANG. new resolution, new admiration, new inspiration new new new!! so, what are you up to these year?? parties, picnics, discotheque and so and so and so.... But is it gonna last forever?? a few days fun and the charm is gone!!
Let's make these new year great by doing something memorable and exciting. In the first option wont it be great to visit a far away land and learn the secrets of it. Just fly off to somewhere like Macao or Switzerland and live life princess style. Whether you are with your spouse or single or just want to soak in the season with your family or friends, they have got all sorted-out for you to make your stay interesting and happening. If your budget is a bit off-balance then Goa or Kerela would also do the work.
Or why don”t you join a fun club and become an active member of it. It would really engross up your time and not only that but you would have the opportunity to meet new people and learn new things. Some of us may think weird but even joining a religious centre or a knowledge centre may also ease our pain and make our life exciting.
If you got your technologies digi-cam turn your love for photography into a profit making one. Take pictures with your digi-cam of homes and then sell them off to Realtors. Put up high resolution pictures on a website creating a cyber gallery from which people can buy prints. These would surly spice-up your pocket with some extra money.
And last but not the least bçoz you too can think of something new and innovative, you can also join the various workshops teaching salsa or any dance form that visit your city once in a while with your partner. these would not only bring you closer but also give you some beautiful moments together..
so these new year think something new something hatke and take your life to a new edge!!!
SPEAK OUT
Ever had moments when you know exactly what and how to explain the matter but your mouth is jammed?? Or were there moments when the super stud you had a crush on is standing next to you but you couldn’t even speak the simple ‘HEY’?? Oh!! Those moments of stumped silence. How you wish that you were less gawky, sparkier, confident, wits-in-place at that time and all other time.
This at of being tactful can save a potentially volatile situation. The art of skillfully dealing with any situation handy is a quality tremendously underrated in today’s world. Talking your way out can save you from very dangerous circumstances. Having your mind packed-up with my-thoughts-have-come-to-a-
How to deal with such situation? It’s as easy as breaking a silence. Wondering how easy?? Yup!! Just blurt out what comes to your mind but before that please take a few seconds to choose the right thoughts during your daily encounter. Okay now take it for a chance, you are in a pub with a boy and after one you think that he is boring, what actually would you do? Fake a headache? No!! Just try to speak to him.
You spot celebrities at your near-by table don’t rush over for an autograph because though famous people do thrive for a adulation but go OTT and they’ll surely shrink away. There often comes a situation when you need to deliver your sincere condolence but couldn't master up the courage to visit the place and say the proper words. In such case it’s enough if you recall a happy memory of the person they have lost.And the most common situation is when you meet your ex with his current. It’s natural to feel thrown off-balance and in that you will regain your self-assurance by showing them that you are totally over him.
Practice the art of skillfully speaking at any opportunity. Ask open-minded questions that invite conversation and use the echo technique is; pick up on the last thing a person says. Soon you would find you smooth tongue twisting-up in any situation and make you the conversation princess.
LIVE IN LOVE
Marriage is the undisputed queen of man –women relationship. Several couples vow to remain together till death do them part. But with time relations have taken bigger turns. The trends of live in have been famous in western regions but with time India too is walking hand in hand with it.
The people of India are mostly from rural societies and they think that it is vulnerable for the society to involve in such relation. They believe that it is against our religion and culture. Our rituals don’t allow any two unmarried person to involve physically. A child when born of that relation also faces various criticisms. But young couples caught up in romance and excitement often gets unrealistically optimistic forgetting to think of their families and future. Many opt it because they are afraid of commitment or because they have survived from great traumatic family break-downs.
It is also true that negativity leads us to nothing. In today’s era when technologies have sifted to great changes then why should we back-up in terms of relationship? Youngsters agree that live –in allows a person the other-half in a better way before marriage. Though it’s not a fact but it’s true that many couples opt it for financial terms. Compromises are an important part of relation and good relations are characterized by flexibility.
Some plus points are that when marriages break-off it has to undergo various legal proceedings and family crisis bit you can walk out of a live-in whenever you want to. Every relation has peaks and valleys, one may fall in and out of love but relations are those precious bonding that is cherished for lifetime. Like it or not: marriage means marrying the entire family but live-in doesn’t complicate it such extent.
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GIRLS ON THE ROAD
Gone are the days when girls are only puppets in the strong hands of a man, days when girls sit beside and the man behind the wheels. It’s 21st century and everyone wants to be independent and successful. It’s no more the traditional way where the earner of the family is the male. Not only in earning but everything from your home to car.
Are you thinking that the need for speed is a guy thing?? But no!! Girls are on it too now.. its true that handsome hunks on the racetracks give us a thrill but catching a hot woman give all an adrenaline rush. Some of the winners of the racetracks are Navaz bhathena, Sarika Sehrawat, Renuka Kirplani. And they have really given all a blast!!
It is fact that guys most beloved accessories is his vehicle. He would do everything and anything to make it look marvelous and sexy. But now women are shoulder to shoulder with them and not just on the tracks but even performing stunts. So if you gals are now the proud owner of a brand new set of wheelies, keep them looking as well as feeling good. You should know that maintaining well not only gives it longevity but also lowers your repairing bills.
So all the beautiful ladies on wheels, the best thing to protect the painted exterior of your car is to wash it daily. Don’t forget to wax your car too!! You should vacuum its interior and scrub its carpet with shampoo. Always have all your repairs done by a professional. Women see their car the same way they see their homes. So it is necessary to add a feminine touch, like a padded sterling wheel to protect manicured nails.
REALITY MANIAC
Are you hooked-up with the reality shows?? What is it about reality T.V that rocks our world and makes us sweat and whine with the shows of real life of real people? From rage-of –riches game show’Kaun Banega Crorepati’ to the spontaneous outpouring of powerful voices of ‘Indian Idol’, there is ready made entertainment lingering in every channel.
Were you breaking dates with your man to just watch a good bitch in Spits villa, Roadies or Big Boss?? It is because you just love watching a vixen pour out her outrage. The vixen has suddenly nabbed the spotlight and even Item Girl Rakhi Sawant has become a household name after her search for Mr. Right. Just watching a bitch doesn’t satisfy us, we’d love to watch a ringside view of action. In every shows politics, conspiracies, hidden romances, break-ups, outrages are all a part of the show and people are spiced-up with them.Not only people like the participants to gouge but even the heated debate between judges makes us glued to the seat. The catchphrase of Donald Trump on The Apprentice,’ you are fired’ is delivered in the most offensive way possible and people love hear it again and again..
Whether it’s MTV Roadies or the Survivor, challenges and game shows are always exceedingly popular among people. Human beings are curious by nature and the break-downs on RTV give them a window into aspects of other people’s personal lives. They love to watch others sweat put efforts to overcome fears and working hard to stay –put in the show. The latest show ‘Sach Ka Samna’, the Hindi equivalent of Moment Of Truth has reeled up people to wonder in amazement and astonishment. In these show the boundaries of personal lives become completely blurred. The format of voting in some shows has also ensured people to make them feel a part of the action.
People love winners but RTV has catapulted the might have to the limelight. It has taken the part of a platform where even a non happening town-boy can instantly become a cool-celebrity. These shows make it seem possible for dreams to come true. An ordinary man can become rich and famous almost overnight, which is why RTV has become the most viewed programs than the Saas-Bahu rivals.
FASHION FREAK!!
Girls are very particular about their look. They want themselves to look the best and very different from others. Just become one among thousands. One broken nail and they would make a hell of everything. Just imagine what they would bring everyone to if they had a bad hair day. With all set from neck to toe and if they couldn't’t put on a proper hair style, they would howl in dismay. So it’s a suggestion to pamper you with lots of care and nourishment.
When you notice those adverts on TV where women strut around with their silky, sensational and sexy hair, you obviously feel your mane to be made of straw. Isn’t it?? Whether it is a 50 year old adult or 15 years teen but when it comes to hair, the desire for the same thick, shiny, healthy hair is universal among all. Managing your mane is quite an ordeal, sometimes it gets so frustrating that you even can’t go with the choice between maintaining the age old remedies or the booming hair products of the market. There are lots of hair-myths that circle around the globe like legends.
There is a big fat myth that hair shouldn't’t be washed regularly. Come on!! With all those pollution how could you dream that you would have healthy silky hair without regular washing? Girls!! Do not oil your hair regularly for a healthy mane. It tends to attract dust and dirt and becomes a breading ground for infections. It is also not necessary to oil your hair the night before washing because it performs its work in a 40 minutes time. There is another myth surrounding us and it’s that cutting your hair makes it grow faster. But it’s not true, it’s your hair not a lawn, it would only make it shorter.
Hair shouldn't’t be combed while wet. Right girls? But my dear pretty ones it is not true. If you do not comb it while wet it would tangle into locks and make it unmanageable to style later. It is advisable to comb your hair with a wide toothed comb while conditioning to ensure equal distribution. Combs come in various materials like plastic, metal, wood and bone. Plastic and metal combs are advised not to use as they damage the hair by ripping and tearing the shaft. Wood and bone combs are gentler on hair and don’t cause damage. The Paddle Brush is best for long hair and Cushion Style brush is best for medium length hair.
Along with the entry of the Bold Bob cut in trend, long curls are also all the rage now. So the Indian ladies, who are blessed with long dark natural curls, wear it long and in one-length. Coloring your hair is also in trend but to pick the right hue for your hair makes the difference. Coloring during pregnancy is not harmful as most think so.
You typically think that summer is the time when hair gets more damaged but you can actually use the sun’s rays to get softer tresses. So, as the days are getting shorter and colder try avoiding being a hot-mess. Put on a new hair-style, stop going along with the myths and nourish your hair to have those silky-sexy mane like those in the adverts. At last but not the least wash of only 90 % of your conditioner to maintain that curly mane.
STILL IN LOVE WITH UR EX???
Do you still get teary eyas when you think of your ex?? Land up going into a day dream that last for minutes and constantly find yourself comparing every guy you meet with your ex?? Can’t help but go through all the letters and cards that your ex gave you??
Then the fact is, you are still clinging to your past. You haven’t gotten over the fact that your ex is no longer in your life. You are still head-over-heels at him and couldn’t except the fact that you have been ditched. Still waiting in hope that everything would be fine between you. But its time to get over your past. Till when would you get wetly eyes? Life goes on and so does our relations. Stop lingering in your past, be open to change and embrace the things that make you happy then dwelling in the past. When a cute guy asks you out, say yes and enjoy his company rather then comparing. If some places or incidents make you remember your past quickly think of reasons why you broke off or moments when you were not happy with him.
Stop chasing after a guy who has no interest in you. Remember that you have more dignity than that. Accept the fact that he was no equal to you and you do not reserve a person like him. Instead of thinking ‘OH!! How romantic and cute he was’ think,’ how embarrassing it was when he shouted at me’. It’s not a matter of overnight but you need patience to get him off your head. Start partying and spending your time with your friends but not those that both of you share but those that are close to you or rather a new bunch. At the very first throw away all the stuff that is related to him, even his number from your speed dial. Thrust yourself and manage to deal with your emotions. It’s better to avoid going to places where you might bump into each other. Stop being devastated and wallow in self pity wondering what went wrong rather talk to your buddies and make plans that would cheer you up.
Although break-ups are difficult, they are inevitable. Sometimes they come unexpectedly and sometimes after dragging it for long you decide to call it off. But whenever it comes prepare for it and avoid all the emotional mess. Be open to new relations and be positive. Don’t get scared that it would end-up in the same manner but these times choose someone who is really worthy for you. There is no definition line from LIKE to LOVE. Don’t mistake your liking for someone as love. Those three words that apparently make your world go round can also make your relation go topsy turvy. It’s real hard to get into another relation after ending up with one. So it’s better if you take your time and wait for the right moment to say ‘I LOVE YOU’. Moving on is difficult but sometimes you have to do it. So young ladies stop getting teary eyes at the drop of his name and be practical….
HOMOSEXUALITY-CURSE OR A BOON
Every news channel and papers are blasting up with this headlines ‘Gay marriage is legal’. Some are gleefully dancing at the news while some think that it is weird. Not only just happy but many are already getting married. Just a week after a New Delhi court legalized homosexuality, the first gay-marriage took place in India. Amit and Jeeta both 18 from Chandigarh got married following the landmark judgment, which changed a 148 years old British colonial era ruling that made homosexuality a punishable offence.
It is not a fresh and most reviewed topic that there exist people in this world who are in love with the same sex but it is definitely an astounding topic that High court of Delhi have legalized the marriage between same sex in the 3rd of July ’09. For most part of the last 5 years debate over gay-marriage has been heard in the halls of US Congress, at the White House and many other dozens of states. Many talk against it and are truly disappointed at the Court’s decision. They say that it is not what actually happens in the nature. They think that it would surly corrupt our culture and society.
Although it seemed to fade from the public eye for a moment but it have again come to the limelight by making it legal in India. In 1971 Baker V. Nelson and Minnesota, the first same sex marriage case brought in the United State is ruled against plaintiffs Richard John Baker and James Michael Mc Connell. In 1958 the 1st interracial marriage polling was conducted and opposition was greater than it is today. No state has then legalized gay-marriage and many a times people used to boycott such couples from the society. In the Chirang district of Assam there are two girls staying as couple and they were married since 1990 but at that period when they eloped people boycotted them from their village. Its being a few years since when people have accepted them again. Those against it say that they couldn’t imagine how people could allow such a thing to happen. They say that in this era when government is taking lots of procedures to stop Polygyny and relieve the people from AIDS, these matter has really turned everything topsy-turvy. There is no such issue where it is said that they couldn’t maintain polygyny. People are hectic that this would give rise to more STDs and thus create problem.
Homosexuality is the conduct of sodomy with same sex. It is true that perhaps homosexuality does not fall into the traditional definition of marriage but the most important thing in marriage or a relation is love and trust. It is a union of souls that cannot be regulated by some act of congress. Each and everyone have a right to freedom and will. It is there choice to lead their life in the way they want to lead it. Homosexuality is not an offense till there doesn’t occur any such circumstances, which would create problem to people and nature.Thus it is upon us to decide whether it is a boon or a curse to the society.
IN TREND!!
We spent long hours to decorate ourselves in order to look presentable. Be it our hairstyle, dress, make-up or any other accessories. Some people have great taste in shopping while some do not. Every part of our body requires special care and the time we spend in make-up should be cut-off a bit and given to our footwear. Every dress has its own type of footwear, how pathetic it would look if you move about in boots along with a sari.
Items of footwear evolved at first as protection to the human foot and later on as a part of decoration. Appearance and design varies with culture and time. Evidence shows that they were already used in most early civilizations though people mostly went barefooted. Mountains in Mesopotamia around 1600 BC wore the first moccasin-like shoe. And young ladies your favorite Stiletto shoes were found in ancient Egypt, in a tomb dating from 1000 BC.
Shoes are basically dress shoes and casual shoes. Smooth and supple leather upper, leather soles and narrow sleek figure categorize dress shoes. While casual shoes are categorized by sturdy leather upper, non-leather soles and wide profile. Whether you love buying shoes or wish to wear the same old pair, you may have some shoes in your closet looking at which you would wonder,” what was I thinking of when I bought them?” And of course there would be some which when gets worn-out, you would think, “how much I miss my those special pair!” So? Which category of footwear you want in your closet? Exactly the second one. The women with less height should avoid T-straps and ankle-straps because they can visually cut-off the leg and make them look shorter. Stilettos are flattering and flaunt but if you want a business look please go for heels that are thicker. Hold on!! Short women, do avoid ultra heels because they don’t look tall but shorter as the calf muscles flex too much. Flats are perfect with narrow or cropped pants, short skirts or long skirts. Sneaker boots looks like an athletic shoe but if equipped with heel, makes it a kind of novelty dress shoe.
Shoes play important role in many well-known storybooks like Cinderella, Wizard of Oz and many more. Classic black leather are wardrobe essential but if you want latest and greatest then shop for brand names and designer shoes. And because it is summer now, PLEASE avoid wearing the same shoes two days in a row because the previous days perspiration needs to dry.So every summer pack-up your closet with a number of them.....
MEANS OF HAPPINESS
Happiness is a mysterious feeling. A feeling that cannot be explained in words. A feeling that brings smile to our face. People get happy in the way they want something to happen. It is mainly our way of looking life. If we think negative the universe is going to deliver negative things. What we hold in our mind is what will come into manifestation. It is not merely an achievement because sometimes some people feel happy even looking at the beautiful nature around us.
Te feeling of joy comes to different people in different ways. Like a crying baby would feel happy when it is cuddled up in the arms of the loving mother, a beggar would when he attains food or money, an artist when he comes across his favorite scenic beauty to capture, a poet when he completes his lines, a student when he obtains good marks, a farmer when see his prosperity of paddy field. It’s not that only reach and famous are the happiest person in this earth. America, the richest country but the people are not the happiest. And co-incidentally Bhutan one of the poor countries falls among the happiest countries.
This joyness is our way of accepting things. It’s the manner in which we become satisfied. Some people are very pessimist. They never accept things in a positive way, so, are never satisfied and hence, never happy. We are trained from our childhood that any thing in our life to be acquired, we need to work hard. But, they are hard only when we take them in hard way. Suppose a painter views beautiful scenery but things it is impossible for him to paint it out then he is never going to attain his goal. He should be optimist, and perform, because it is his skill and he could surely do it. An optimist is always happy in any situation. Sometimes some pick skills which others after much thinking could not get it because they are optimist.
To obtain high education and being very brilliant does not make one happy. But to learn how lead a prosperous and peaceful life is the real education. London school of economics has stated through a research study that though a man could obtain twice the wealth he has, but he could not obtain twice that happiness.
A person should believe that his goal is there for him, he should feel good and quit asking for his desire and finally take action. Every situation has to expect a negative and a positive and we should wash off the negative aspects and focus up on the positive. Andre Carnegie a famous philosopher quotes that “dealing with a man is like digging gold in a mine.” To get one ounce of gold we need to dig one ton of clad. But the satisfaction lies up on the way we think, none should think that we are digging for clad but for gold.
So, why live a chaotic life by looking the world through the eye of a negative thinker and be sad than being a positive thinker and lead a healthy peaceful and happy life. So, the motto is my people, “be happy and make other happy.”
love over friendship!!!!
Do you think that a boy and a girl can be best friends forever??? They would spent their entire teen age together and never feel a flicker of attraction towards each other.I don't think so as the saying goes"OPPOSITE ATTRACTS".
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