STILL IN LOVE WITH UR EX???

Do you still get teary eyas when you think of your ex?? Land up going into a day dream that last for minutes and constantly find yourself comparing every guy you meet with your ex?? Can’t help but go through all the letters and cards that your ex gave you??

Then the fact is, you are still clinging to your past. You haven’t gotten over the fact that your ex is no longer in your life. You are still head-over-heels at him and couldn’t except the fact that you have been ditched. Still waiting in hope that everything would be fine between you. But its time to get over your past. Till when would you get wetly eyes? Life goes on and so does our relations. Stop lingering in your past, be open to change and embrace the things that make you happy then dwelling in the past. When a cute guy asks you out, say yes and enjoy his company rather then comparing. If some places or incidents make you remember your past quickly think of reasons why you broke off or moments when you were not happy with him.

Stop chasing after a guy who has no interest in you. Remember that you have more dignity than that. Accept the fact that he was no equal to you and you do not reserve a person like him. Instead of thinking ‘OH!! How romantic and cute he was’ think,’ how embarrassing it was when he shouted at me’. It’s not a matter of overnight but you need patience to get him off your head. Start partying and spending your time with your friends but not those that both of you share but those that are close to you or rather a new bunch. At the very first throw away all the stuff that is related to him, even his number from your speed dial. Thrust yourself and manage to deal with your emotions. It’s better to avoid going to places where you might bump into each other. Stop being devastated and wallow in self pity wondering what went wrong rather talk to your buddies and make plans that would cheer you up.

Although break-ups are difficult, they are inevitable. Sometimes they come unexpectedly and sometimes after dragging it for long you decide to call it off. But whenever it comes prepare for it and avoid all the emotional mess. Be open to new relations and be positive. Don’t get scared that it would end-up in the same manner but these times choose someone who is really worthy for you. There is no definition line from LIKE to LOVE. Don’t mistake your liking for someone as love. Those three words that apparently make your world go round can also make your relation go topsy turvy. It’s real hard to get into another relation after ending up with one. So it’s better if you take your time and wait for the right moment to say ‘I LOVE YOU’. Moving on is difficult but sometimes you have to do it. So young ladies stop getting teary eyes at the drop of his name and be practical….