Marriage is the undisputed queen of man –women relationship. Several couples vow to remain together till death do them part. But with time relations have taken bigger turns. The trends of live in have been famous in western regions but with time India too is walking hand in hand with it.
The people of India are mostly from rural societies and they think that it is vulnerable for the society to involve in such relation. They believe that it is against our religion and culture. Our rituals don’t allow any two unmarried person to involve physically. A child when born of that relation also faces various criticisms. But young couples caught up in romance and excitement often gets unrealistically optimistic forgetting to think of their families and future. Many opt it because they are afraid of commitment or because they have survived from great traumatic family break-downs.
It is also true that negativity leads us to nothing. In today’s era when technologies have sifted to great changes then why should we back-up in terms of relationship? Youngsters agree that live –in allows a person the other-half in a better way before marriage. Though it’s not a fact but it’s true that many couples opt it for financial terms. Compromises are an important part of relation and good relations are characterized by flexibility.
Some plus points are that when marriages break-off it has to undergo various legal proceedings and family crisis bit you can walk out of a live-in whenever you want to. Every relation has peaks and valleys, one may fall in and out of love but relations are those precious bonding that is cherished for lifetime. Like it or not: marriage means marrying the entire family but live-in doesn’t complicate it such extent.
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